Life, personality or success are terms which mean different things to different people, yet they can be boiled down to few simple formulas.
For example, the game of cricket has three aspects such as batting, bowling and fielding.
The game of life similarly has about six important aspects when distilled. Once understood and mastered, life becomes an interesting playground.
Today’s world is fast moving. Knowledge has to be practical and easy to apply. That’s the essence of this post and this very article you are reading now is actually , excerpt from my forthcoming book.
Several research studies indicate the value of good looks and personality presentation in the story of life.
Many years back we started a program called changing faces – changing lives to fulfill this need. Looks have to be complimented by attractive inner qualities of head and heart called ‘personality base or substance’ and strangely its development is not as difficult as it seems.
Have you ever given it a thought that it takes about 15 days to learn to swim or drive a car. The key to any learning or transformation are two simple things called knowledge and training.
You speak convent English because you went to a English school. This rule, you can apply to anything you wish to develop. The way to an attractive personality is again simple. Learn the basics of good looks, have a beautiful mind ,possess a benevolent heart and let them become integral part of your system.
If we did what all we could do we would amaze ourselves, here are 6 smart ways you can bring amazing changes within yourself.
1.The magic of public speaking
According to a survey , 41 % of people have this fear of public speaking, which is on top of a list of common human fears. Very few actually know that this is a simple but one the most powerful way to develop self confidence and a dynamic personality.
I have no hesitation to say that this skill is equivalent to a college degree and a qualification in itself. It is a shortcut to elevating yourself. It is the best way to drive away shyness, inhibitions and fear of people.
Speaking has a magical power of bringing the mind and personality into focus. A speaker has to think on his feet, think fast, he has to concentrate. His memory blossoms and the mind opens up like a parachute. The personality starts getting groomed, toned, streamlined and relaxed. This simple skill is one of the most potent methods leading to a cosmetic personality. If you would gamble further, try a short course in acting and theater, and see the benefits for yourself.
2.The amazing power of human mind(human computer)
The P.C.(personal computer) came into vogue around 1980’s. It is said to have taken the world 50 years ahead. Now can you imagine the power of human mind, the mere hardware would occupy 17 times the size of Mumbai city. It’s a tireless machine. It’ powers are fathomless.
Our mind can dream, imagine, think. It has powers of telepathy, clairvoyance and can absorb 80 information per second. It can store a million or a billion information.
Hands can give us a living, but what the mind can give is anything one asks of in life.
All outstanding success are result of mind games.
The mind has two parts – conscious and subconscious. The subconscious mind sees in pictures and is the real boss that either makes you a king or a pauper. The way to feed the subconscious mind is called self-suggestion. Mind is a thought factory where it produces ripe thoughts called ideas. When these ideas are practically used, they transform into success stories.
A basic understanding of the power of mind is as important as knowledge of the computers.
3. Attractive personality and its development
The word personality comes from the Greek- persona – the mask actors wore to play different roles. A complete personality is one, which has power to power to attract through magnetism and is able to harmonize by its flexibility and adaptability.
Whatever is your reality, is your personality.
Attractive personality is a complex term which is combination of over 25 inner qualities and outer physiognomy. A cosmetic personality is a bouquet of beautiful qualities. A computer is programmed to behave optimally in various situations. So as a person with a cosmetic personality.
Again, the development of personality is simple matter of knowing and training. Not to mention few key terms like aura, charm, dramatization, showmanship etc. which are the concepts understood by a person with cosmetic personality.
A good personality is like a front page news.
4. Human relations(social literacy)
One can call social literacy as an art of getting along with others. In France, the canine population as pet animal is double of the human species. Why is dog such a craze as a pet animal? There are various reasons. One of them is, everyone admires the quality of the dog – i.e the language of love that dog has for it’ well wishers. The dog has indeed learnt the biggest secret of human relations – Genuine love for others.
Human relation is all about managing our equation with others. Human relation depends on our attitude towards others, this spells our social attitude and popularity. For example, if we are smiling means we are happy seeing others. Our facial expression and tone of voice indicates what’s going on in our minds.
5. The magic laws of success
Success is achieving whatever one wants without violating the rights of others. It is not just about what we achieve, but also what we become at the end of this journey.
Several books are available on this subject. American author Napoleon Hill did a research in association with Andrew Carnegie – one time richest man of America.
6. Financial Intelligence
The rules of the Rich.
Rich people manage their money well whereas poor people mis-manage their money well.
Poor people work for money, rich people let money work for them.
The 8th wonder of world is compounding – Albert Einstein
First save then spend, most do the opposite.
Money saved is money earned, Pay yourself first.
Save -Buy assets-Let assets buy the luxuries for you.
If you save 10% consistently, you will be rich as per your standards
About the Author
This is a guest post by Dr. Kamal Murdia. To guest post on this blog, check guest post page.
Dr. Kamal Murdia rewrites the magical laws of living and personality, based on 25 years of research , distillation of over 3000 books, videos and personal experience of over 20 self help courses and his years of experience as a thoughtful plastic surgeon.